Open Letter To The Girl Who Walked Away From The Nice Guy, It happens all to often: The nice guy loses the girl for being exactly who he is.
What is even worse is if he is really the nice guy, he is going to lose her and accept it to be something she truly desires and offer her his best wishes, as she walks away being everything he could ever want -- his dream come true.
On behalf of all the other nice guys out there, this is to the girl who walked out on the best thing that ever happened to her:
Dear Girl Who Walked Away,
It's not like you didn't know what you were getting yourself into. He told you he was nice. He trusted easily and gave you all he could whenever he could.
Such is the plight of the nice guy.
The nice guy believes in doing things right. He was there when you needed him to be, and he went out of his way to make sure you knew just how much you could mean to someone.
You went through something in your past, like we all do, and because of it you changed. So, as soon as your new relationship became real, you began to push the nice guy away. When he wouldn't go away, you pushed harder. Still, he didn't give up and every time you pushed harder, he pulled you in even more.
He ignored your fears and attempted to force you to grow; he battled for your passions when all you could do was write them off. He focused on everything you needed. Then you just walked away. Why? Because he was too nice.
He gave you too much of everything you wanted, and life got too easy.
The nice guy has been hurt before as well, he just chooses to stay nice. He has learned that different people ultimately provide him different things in life. The nice guy also chooses not to let any of it change who he is.
So, after repeated attempts to get you to come to your senses, he let you walk away and chalked it up to experience. They say that there are plenty of fish in the sea, and he let you go knowing this, even though it hurt.
What you do not comprehend is that someone else is out there, and she isn't going to be as foolish you. When you realize all you really wanted is the nice guy who cares about you too much, it is going to be too late. Some other girl will be able to see how great he is, and she will not waste one minute.
The nice may have loved you too soon and it was too crazy and too much, but men like him do not happen every day; in fact, they happen almost never. He made you feel love when love was no longer a part of your vocabulary.
He was the guy you were supposed to end up with, who made everything change. I just wish you'd realize it before another girl does because at the end of the day, the nice guy you don't deserve, is your biggest fan.
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